My Aunt Joy passed away this week. She's to be cremated and her ashes interred in Green-wood Cemetery in Brooklyn. I had hoped to turn it around, like Aunt Joy would have liked.
The trip to the funeral home in Brooklyn and to Green-Wood Cemetery is a long one. I'd prefer to not have to make it twice in as many days. I booked a hotel in nearby Borough Park; an easy reach by subway, if a little hot on the D train. It was great to be back in Brooklyn, even if it was for somber event. The hotel was a pleasant one, with a nearby kosher deli at which Alex and I splurged. I had the schnitzel sandwich and Alex had the French fries - an order he said he won't be making again there. Dan took the train there straight from work and met us at the hotel.
At my mom's insistence, Ellen came to pick us up at the deli. Driving down 13th Avenue made me really homesick, even though I hadn't grown up in Borough Park. I missed streets and avenues lined with small stores like this. I had the urge to go shopping there and wondered if it would be worth it to take the trip again to do so.
At the funeral home, Dan took care of Alex and I visited with family members. I was sure to get email addresses from them, determined to stay in touch.
That evening, back at the hotel, Alex couldn't decide whether he wanted to sleep with Mommy or Daddy. He eventually chose Daddy.
The next morning, we dressed for the funeral. Alex seemed pleased to wear his suit.
Green-Wood Cemetery is beautiful any time of year. The columbarium in which my aunt's remains were to be kept was on a gorgeous and peaceful setting with goldfish ponds between the buildings.
The lunch afterwards was pretty long. It took everything I could to keep Alex entertained, but I must say that he was really, really good considering the circumstances and that he's not even 4 yet. Waiting so long cancelled my plans to bring Alex to the transit museum afterwards, but we can always do that another time.
My aunt would likely advise to not wait too long before we visited again. I'll make sure that's the case.